Thursday, June 21, 2012

19 months, 7 days.......

TODAY 


19 months, 7 days ago.......


19 months, 7 days before that......


I can't easily explain why today is such a significant day for me.  Today Toby is exactly the same age as Willow was, when he was born.  It marks the passing of time- brings me back to Willow at that time.  It seems so long ago..... yet, like it was yesterday.  I've been thinking that Toby seems a lot younger than Willow seemed then.  But looking back at those chubby cheeks, how small she looks I think I'm wrong.  Now I have a big 3 year old to compare Toby to, so he still seems like a baby.  SLOW. DOWN. TIME.  In 19 months and 7 days from now, Toby will be 3 years 2 months and 14 days old!



Friday, June 15, 2012

hugs!

I can't resist taking comparison photos- here are the kids at the zoo sitting on the bench beside the elephant exhibit- in June 2011, and again this week- June 2012.  They are getting so big!

























   


Friday, June 1, 2012

Dear Toby (My big boy!)

Dear Toby,

Last weekend you decided you didn't need my milk anymore.  It was Thursday when I noticed you hadn't asked for it.  Friday I did not offer.  And that was all.  I'm sad, and relieved, and proud and terrified.  You're not a baby anymore and that makes me sad.   I'm glad you're getting big, becoming independent and not needing me so much.  I hope soon you won't need me to fall back to sleep at night.  Please?

I'm so proud of you!
Love Mama

P.S.  I took me a week to write this, I was a blubbering emotional mess and just couldn't manage!





Monday, May 14, 2012

18 Months!

It seems like just yesterday I was writing this post.   It was a year ago.

Today, Toby is becoming a boy; a silly, handsome, affectionate little dude.  His favorite things are playing with his sister, dancing to anything with a good beat, watching cars/trucks/buses/planes.... anything that moves.  He is quiet but social.  He's always smiling, busy, watching, curious.  He likes to climb, run, move, copy everything that Willow does.

Toby is becoming more verbal everyday.  He will copy anything I say and sometimes it sounds nothing like the words I said but the syllables and annotation are right on.  He is just beginning to put words together- there you go! is a favourite phrase.  He can name most of his body parts and knows quite a few animal sounds.  He likes to refer to animals by their sound before their name.  The way he is learning to speak is so much different than how Willow did it.  She wouldn't say a word until she knew it would come out perfect.  Toby likes to experiment with sound, practice words, play with noises.   He is slower to speak than Willow was (she was talking full on sentences, conversations at this age) but his non verbal communication is good.  He can be clingy and whiny, especially when tired, I think this comes from his lack of communication.

I don't ever want to forget that when I pick him up his right hand finds the hair at the back of my head, and his left thumb goes in his mouth.   He rarely sucks his thumb at any other time (besides sleep).   I love love love when he grabs my face and pushes it into his, nose to nose and scrunches up his face.  I think he's saying "I love you!".  And the sweetest look of surprise when he hears something new, when a door opens,  or when he's about to get a treat.






This morning Toby ran to wake me up and told me "bird! bird!"  I opened my eyes and we listened to the birds.  "Chirp! Chirp!" he said with the biggest smile on his face.  I love this age and don't want to forget a moment.

Friday, April 13, 2012

What they're saying, April 13 2012

Willow: Daddy took my booger with him to work today.

Me: Why would Daddy take your booger to work?

Willow: Because I wiped it on his shoulder.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Wordless Wednesday (My baby is 3!!!)

in her special birthday shirt.

excited to open her bubbles from mom and dad.

not impressed with the attention when it was time
to blow out the candles.... she needed a little help from mom.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

I missed March

I didn't post a single thing in March. Bad! I promise to try really hard to do better this month. I should at least have some birthday photos to post after this weekend!

After 1 week of perfect health in this house (the first since Christmas)..... we're sick again. James and Toby have a cold and it's only a matter of time before Willow and I get it. I just hope she's not too sick on her birthday this year.


Sunday, February 26, 2012

Dear Toby (the car enthusiast)

Dear Toby,

It is completely adorable that a car driving by our house excites you. You breath hard, point, say "ah-ah-ah" and want us to pick you up to carry you to the window to look out. You are unbelievably cute. But, we can't do this for you every time a car goes by! The way you cry, real tears streaming when we don't oblige you breaks our hearts. It's just not possible with dinner cooking and other things going on. Not only that, but 9 times out of 10 by the time we get to the window the car is long gone!

I'm amazed every day how your nature is all boy. You are attracted to all things that move!

Love,
Mum

Monday, February 13, 2012

DON'T TAKE MY PICTURE MOM!!!

These kids won't let me take their picture. I want to be photographing them all the time- documenting their childhood, practicing for my business....... but they won't let it happen. Toby tries to grab my camera, and when I won't let him have it I get this face:


And Willow covers her face, but if I try to coax her or move the pillow she's hiding behind I get this face:


And this is why there are huge gaps in the photo collection of my kids. They go through stages where they want nothing to do with me with my camera. And then, they're OK with it for awhile. I hope this phase is over soon.